Who is Blue Horse?

People often ask about my company name, so I wrote the story.

One summer on a whim, I took a riding class. That first night, I was given a lovely dapple-gray gelding as my mount. We made a good pair, and found ourselves together again the next week. As we trotted around the ring, he began to canter (not my idea). My reins were loose and I couldn’t stop him. He stumbled a bit, and off I went into the dirt. I ended up with nothing worse than a stiff neck, but I was afraid to ride him again.

But I kept riding other horses, and six months later my teacher assigned me to ride him again. I was still scared, but decided to try. He was now for sale. We had a fine ride that winter day, and as I put his blanket back on, he put his head on my shoulder. I was still scared, so I wasn’t sure what he was doing, but I couldn’t stop thinking about him.

A week later I bought him. Buying a horse is only a wise decision when you have no alternative. They take over your heart, and absorb copious amounts of time and money. I did not care; I was in love with a remarkable 1100 pound animal.

The horse’s perspective Blue grazing in the sun

He was 13 and I was his seventh owner. The first thing I did was to give him a new name: Blue. He thrived with my love and attention. His guardedness and reserve softened over the years we spent together. He taught me much about how to ride a horse – I was a beginner. He taught me even more about the world from a horse’s perspective.

We loved to take walks together. In those times of just being, I began to understand how an animal who lives in a herd perceives and interacts with the world.

Life as a prey animal means constantly being aware of your surroundings because every cell of your body knows that you could be someone’s dinner. Your primary defense is running, so most of the time you’ll flee before you know what that noise or thing might be. You know your safety and survival lies with your herd, so you monitor each other closely. This is why horses are so sensitive to human emotion and energy. It is part of their environment that they track all the time.

Of the many gifts Blue gave me, the greatest was this understanding of the cooperative, collaborative herd-oriented world of horses. This has inspired me to begin working with horses to facilitate experiences for others who want to learn from the wisdom of horses.

And so when it was time, he named my business. Funny how the ups and downs of being in business are actually a lot like having a horse: you may have a great ride, but you still have to clean up the manure.

Comments

11 Responses to “Who is Blue Horse?”
  1. Patty Hansen says:

    What a wonderful story!
    -p.

  2. Ann Tegnell says:

    Dearest Bee, isn’t marketing part of our herd world, as well? Knowing how others think, feel, act? Nicely written! And a happy midsummer to you!
    A

  3. Barbara says:

    Patty & Ann – Thanks so much for your kind words!

  4. Barbara, I am so glad I looked further and found the basis of your business name.As a fellow horse-lover I recall so many stories like this and like you and often call upon the lessons they teach us in living and loving. Thanks for sharing, and keep in touch!

  5. Barbara says:

    Michelle – Thanks so much for exploring and finding the story of Blue Horse, and for leaving your comment. He continues to inspire me in many ways.

  6. Dede Loock says:

    Your story really tugs at the heart strings. Endearing , well written, heart warming. Thank you

  7. Barbara says:

    Dede – Thanks for reading the post and taking the time to leave a comment. The GHS group has been an amazing adventure to witness unfolding – complete with virtual trail ride!

  8. Marie Mulhall Roome says:

    Beautiful and very heart warming <3

  9. Barbara says:

    Marie – Thanks so much for visiting and reading about my beloved Blue Horse!

  10. Susan says:

    Thank you so much for your wonderful comment on my blog and sharing your story of Blue. I now see why my mom has always been so crazy about horses. I hope that his is just the beginning of a new love.

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